🕵️ Stop Talking AT People…


I’ll never forget the first time I hit publish on my very first blog post online.

My hands were shaking, heck, I was even sweating, even my mother language is not English (it’s Sinhala if you really want to know), but the first few comments changed everything.

That moment taught me something stupidly simple.

People want to hear from you, they want to hear from real voices, not that glossy corporate polish, and they also need transparency and trust more than perfect branding.

I’m not the only one saying this. The 2025 State of Marketing Report even frames the year as ‘smarter, better, faster, and more human.’

In other words, I would say people are tired of brands talking AT them. They want to know the person behind the words.

For example, instead of a brand posting “We value sustainability,” a founder sharing a short story about biking to work or using less plastic at home feels real and human.

So here’s how you can start showing your true self in what you share:

👉 Tell small stories about what you’re learning or even what you’re still figuring out.

If you want more step-by-step help on being more open with your audience, check out this blog post. I go through 5 storytelling techniques that will make your marketing even better and memorable in 2025.

👉 Share behind-the-scenes peeks or talk about your thought process. People love a quick look at what really goes on.

👉 Be honest if you mess up or don’t know something yet. It shows you’re real, and that’s what builds trust fast.

👉 Keep your voice and values steady in everything you post. It helps people know what to expect from you.

Your story is what gives you an advantage. Don’t be scared to share it.

Stay curious,

Minosh.

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